One Year down, many more to go
Today is our first wedding Anniversary. One year ago today, we had just finished on with our Sangeet function and were gearing up for the big BIG day. We just had the most awesome dance of our life, posed for a thousand pictures, so much so that our jaws were hurting. And here we are today. I can’t believe how fast the time has flown.
It feels as if it was only yesterday that we met, we remember it so clearly. Yet it feels like we have known each other for all our lives. Doing each and every little thing together, like having dinner together, to going for shopping. In Avani, I have found my best friend and I wouldn’t want it any other way.
Things I learnt in the 1st Year of my marriage-
- I learnt that Marriage is not always love. It is all the things including respect, sacrifice, understanding and patience.
- That life is a journey, and enjoying the journey is the most important thing.
- All times are not happy, Life has its own share of happy and sad moments. The key is to stay together in both the times.
- Giving time to each other is very important. Luckily, here I get to come home early so that I can give Avani and our relationship a lot of time. And the thing about time is it goes by fast 🙂
- “When are you planning for children?” this is the most common question that gets thrown, and 1 year past, the pressure to have a kid is only going to increase 🙂
- “hows married life?”, the second most common question. I learnt the answer to this- Life is good. I have found my best friend for life.
- The health challanges will come, and now it is not only your health that you need to be worried about. But I guess the fact that we are together gives the other courage to deal with it.
- I love calling her my wife, my life, my shonu!
- I am more boring and less romantic than I really thought I am. But again, it need not always be expressed in the grandest of ways. It is small things that matter.
- She definitely loves me more than I do(not that I love her any less).
- I am sometimes not very expressive(or most of the times).
- We are basically the same person, we like the same kind of people, same kind of interests bla bla. The only difference being her love for TV serials.
- Having someone always with me to laugh, to talk, to irritate is possibly the best thing 🙂
- A simple hug, can take away the days fatigue.
- It sometimes does become difficult to manage the expectations of the family. But touchwood Avani and moma have been understanding of each other.
- Now that we are two, everything is double. Double the happiness, the joy, the laundry and also the bills 😛
- Next anniversary, make sure that I take Avani out for a vacation. Missed it this year but next year will make sure it happens 🙂
- All I have to say you is I might not express the love as loudly as others do. I also fail to surprise you. But all I can say is I will always love you, and hold your hand together. I love you more for all that you do for me. You not only fill in the role of my wife, but also my best friend, the best daughter for my parents. You are the best thing that ever happened to me.
- We have a lot of mountains to climb, many places to see, but I bet if I have your company, the rest of our lives will also be a breeze.